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Navigating the Rough Seas of Re-entry
       Navigating the Rough Seas of Re-entry


       By: Ramon Foster






       “Instead of diving into uncertainty, we have to know that we can     because I knew there were people out there
       make it and allow others to help us navigate”                        looking for me to fail. The key to my successful
                                                                            re-entry was good  family, friends,  and  faith.
       It’s October 2008, just a few weeks after the 1000 Men Rally and     And  to  those  in prison,  stay focused  and
       Eldrick James has just been released to a work release program.      strong. There are opportunities out here. Keep
       Not  knowing where  he’s  going to  work, he  makes  a  call  to  his   God first. Keep looking up and looking ahead
       childhood  friend,  State  Representative  Alan  Williams, who  has   and  everything will work out  for  you.”  James
       recently been working collaboratively as a partner with the 1000     credits both Williams and Gillis for believing in
       Men Rally an event that was the vision of another childhood friend.     him and giving him the opportunity to succeed.
       William decides to reach out to one of the corporate partners of the
       1000 Men Rally 2008, Captain D’s owner/operator Terry Gillis, in     Terry Gillis, believed in James and wanted to
       hopes that his partnership would extend past the events, but would   give him  and  men like him  second  chances.
       help in the evolution of change.                                     “I don’t believe in  giving  too  much,  but  I do
                                                                            believe in opening doors. It’s up to you to take
       Now it’s August 2011, just a few weeks before the 1000 Men Rally     advantage of the opportunity in front of you.”
       and Eldrick James, the former ex-offender is now the store manager   Gillis  says. Gillis,  who may not  be familiar
       of the Tallahassee Captain D’s. “I felt that since I was coming out   with prison himself, has had some hard times
       of prison, I had to work harder than others because people were      and that is why he believes in giving second
       looking for me to mess up,” James stated. After being hired as a     chances. “When I was 19 years old I became
       cook, James worked his way up and went through doors he claims       a father. I had no idea how I was going to take
       were opened for him. “I never gave up hope. I had to overcome odds   care of this child and this woman.” But Gillis
                                                                            remained  determined  and optimistic about
                                                                            things and  at 22 years  old  with a  child  and
                                                                            wife, Gillis  got into the  restaurant  business
                                                                            only making $3.35 an hour. “I had to make it
                                                                            work. I wasn’t about to do anything illegal to
                                                                            be separated from my wife and kid.” Gillis is
                                                                            now the owner and operator  of Captain D’s
                                                                            in  both Tallahassee  and Quincy. Gillis  says
                                                                            the message he sends to those who are still
                                                                            incarcerated,  “stay positive  and  make  good
                                                                            decisions.  Because  the  decisions  you  make
                                                                            now will begin to effect how things will turn out
                                                                            for you.”

                                                                            Here  it  is  now 4  years into the 1000  Men
                                                                            Rally and Terry Gillis continues to be an avid
                                                                            supporter  of the rally, State Representative
                                                                            Alan Williams continues to serve as an annual
                                                                            chairperson  and  Eldrick  James  continues  to
                                                                            be the evidence of a successful re-entry, and
                                                                            what happens when others reach out to help
                                                                            navigate the re-entry process.








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